Mental Wellness-First Divorce Support

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The only divorce app designed to reduce escalation before lawyers take over. Start with emotional stability-not legal warfare.

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Clarity Over Conflict

Your Roadmap Progress

StabilizeOrganizePlanFinalize

I notice you're feeling overwhelmed. Let's pause

before making any decisions. Take a breath—

what's the one thing you need most right now?

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Protects Children First
No Judgment, Just Support

The Real Problem

Divorce Doesn't Have ToDestroy Families Or Finances

Most people don't know what to do next—and that uncertaintyfuels anxiety, bad decisions, and spiraling costs.

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Emotional Escalation

Divorce decisions are rarely made from logic. They're made from fear, grief, and a dysregulated nervous system leading to conflict and expensive legal battles.

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Lack of Structure

Without a clear roadmap, uncertainty fuels anxiety. Lawyers enter early, costs rise fast, and control disappears before you've even started.

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Isolation in Hard Moments

Divorce is lonely. People spiral at night, replay conversations, and make decisions they regret simply because there's no steady support when emotions spike.

LawyersManage conflictReduce it first
TherapyExplores emotionsMoves through them
CoachingFocuses on mindsetFocuses on execution
TimingAfter escalationBefore it happens

The DivorcePost Difference

Most Divorce Solutions Focus On Who's Right. We Focus On Who Stays Regulated.

  • Nervous-System Awareness

    People don't decide well when dysregulated. We help you recognize that state first.

  • Grief-Stage Awareness

    Prevent decisions made from shock, anger, or fear-understand where you are emotionally.

  • Step-by-Step Roadmap

    Clear milestones designed to minimize legal involvement until absolutely necessary.

  • Private AI Companion

    Calm, real-time guidance during emotionally difficult moments-available when you need it most.

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"I never thought I'd get divorced. When it happened, I made one decision early: everyone would come out better-my children, my future, and the business I was running. I chose clarity over chaos, intention over revenge, and structure over emotional free-fall."

Tonya Lanthier

Founder, DivorcePost

25+ years in healthcare - CEO - Mother

Common Questions

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Wondering...

Your private AI companion is ready to listen. No judgment. No pressure. Just a steady presence to help you think clearly when emotions run high.

My situation is too complicated for an app.

Most divorces feel complicated because emotions are uncontained, not because the steps are unclear. DivorcePost helps you stabilize emotions, organize decisions, and reduce escalation so professionals can move faster with fewer surprises.

I don't trust technology with something this personal.

That caution is valid. DivorcePost is designed for private guidance and does not replace legal or clinical care. You choose what to share, and you can escalate to human professionals whenever needed.

What if my spouse won't cooperate?

You can still make progress on your side. The app helps you de-escalate communication, prepare documentation, and show up grounded so you are ready for mediation or attorney involvement when needed.

I need a lawyer to protect me.

Legal support can be essential in many cases. DivorcePost is meant to prepare you before legal steps so meetings with counsel are more focused, efficient, and less emotionally reactive.

I'm afraid I'll make the wrong decision.

That fear is common in high-stress transitions. The structured phases and check-ins are designed to slow the process down enough that decisions are made from clarity instead of panic.

Tonya Lanthier

Tonya Lanthier

Founder & CEO

With over 25 years in healthcare working directly with patients, Tonya understands that people don't make decisions from logic alone they react from the state of their nervous system. She built DivorcePost after navigating her own divorce with intention, proving that families can emerge stronger when emotional regulation comes first.

25+ years healthcare
Former CEO
Founder-market fit

Start With Calm, Not Conflict

Your private AI companion is ready to listen. No judgment. No pressure. Just a steady presence to help you think clearly when emotions run high.

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Hi, I'm here whenever you're ready. There's no rush-we can start wherever feels right for you. What's on your mind today?

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